Missed Call
एक लड़की एक लड़के को बहुत पसंद करती है। लेकिन अभी तक उसे नही देखी है वो उसकी आवाज़ सुन कर ही उसकी खूबसूरती का अनुमान लगा लेती है। और फिर क्या था उसने उससे संपर्क करने कि कोशिश करती है। उसे फ़ोन नंबर भी मिल जाता है। फिर क्या था वो हिम्मत करके लड़के को फ़ोन करती है। पहले मिस्ड कॉल फिर मैसेज। ... जिसमे लिखा था सॉरी गलती से कॉल लग गया। लड़का ,ग़ल
क्या लड़का ख़राब था या लड़की में कुछ अबगुण थे। असल में तो दोनों ही बहुत अच्छे थे।अच्छे घर से एक सामान्य घर जिनके पास वो सब होता है जिसकी जरुरत एक साधारण आदमी को पड़ती है।असल कारण तो ये था कि दोनों ही अलग धर्म के थे।और वो एक दूसरे के साथ एडजस्ट नही कर पा रहे थे। ये समस्या लड़के-लड़की के साथ नही थी ये थी उनके परिवार वालो के साथ। दोनों तो खुश रह लेते लेकिन उनके घर वाले नही।अब वो क्या करे उसमे क्या उन दो मासूमो की गलती है या अपने बच्चों की ख़ुशी से ज्यादा अपनी ख़ुशी देखना गलती है ????? उन्हें समाज ने आज तक कभी बिना उधारी के मदद नही की होगी। लेकिन आज वही समाज के लिये दोनों परिवार दो लोगो से भावनात्मक खेल रहे है। इसी कारण से कभी भी लोग आगे नहीं बढ़ पाते। और अब दोनों ही अपनी जिंदगी अगर किसी और को भी दें तो क्या वो खुश रहेगा जिसके साथ ये रहेंगे। मुझे माफ़ कर देना क्योंकि मैंने कभी ऐसा कुछ नहीं किया जिससे आपको खुशी मिले, लेकिन, आज मैं उस तथ्य के बारे में बात करना चाहता हूं, जो आपको अच्छा या बुरा लग सकता है, इसलिए मैं आपसे पहले ही माफी मांगता हूं।
आप सब जानते है कि अमिताभ बच्चन,अभिषेक बच्चन रानी मुखर्जी, यहाँ ऐसे बड़े स्टार जिन्हें आप अपना लाइफ का आइकॉन या आइडियल मानते है।पता है आप उन्हें क्यों आइडियल मानते है ?क्योंकि उनकी कला आप लोंगो प्रभावित करती है या तो उन लोंगो को उनका पैसा, मै मानता हूँ कि ये लोग वाकई में काबिले तारीफ है। लेकिन अगर हम एक आम इंसान कि तरह सोंचे तो शायद उनके पास भी वही सब है जो एक आम इंसान के पास रहता है। अब ये तो उनकी बिख्याति कि बातें हो गयी।
अब हम उनकी सोच और हमारे जैसे आम आदमियो की सोच में अंतर निकालते है। जिसके कारण वो लोग वाकई में महान कहे जाने के कबिल है।
आप को ये जानकर थोड़ा बुरा जरूर लगेगा लेकिन मुझे परवाह नही। न तुम्हारी और न तुम्हारी घटिया सोच कि क्योंकि मेरा विचार ही कुछ ऐसा है जो लोंगो को उनकी आस्था,श्रद्धा और उनके कई ऐसी प्रमुख धार्मिक या सामाजिक तथ्यों को आहत करेगी। लेकिन मैं उन सब कि परवाह नही करना चाहूंगा। क्योंकि जब इंसान के पास खाने और खिलाने के लिये नहीं रहता तब उसे कोई भी जात-पात या धर्म का फर्क मालूम नहीं पड़ता तब उसे कोई धर्म या समाज का व्यक्ति खाना या पानी पिलाये तब वो उसे ग्रहण कर लेता है। और यदि वही स्थिति इसके विपरीत हो उसके पास सब कुछ हो वह संपन्न हो तो उसे ये डर लगा रहता है,कि कही उससे धनी या उसके बराबरी कही एक गरीब या भिखारी न कर ले।
असल जिंदगी कि बात करता हूं , मैं कोई फेमस आदमी तो नही हूं,लेकिन एक देश एक घर और और ऐसा व्यक्ति जो देश हित याउनसे जुडी सामाजिक और वो सब बेतुकी बाते जो हमें या हमारे जहन को आहत करता है। उसका सुभचिन्तक हूँ। इसमें मेरा मतलब भी हो सकता है।लेकिन मेरा मतलब ये नही कि में किसी की आस्था को ठेस पहुँचाऊ लेकिन ये भी सकता है की है की जो ठोंग करता हो जो वाकई में कभी आगे नही बढ़ना चाहता या किसी को बढने नहीं देना चाहते।
मेरे पास इतना पैसा नही था कि में आगे पढ़ पाऊं,या कुछ कर पाऊं क्योंकि न तो मै पढ़ने में तेज था न ही कुछ खास इंटरेस्ट। तो मेरी माँ ने मुझे एक ऐसी जगह भेज दिया जहाँ का माहौल ही अलग था बिल्कुल अलग समाज या धर्म दोनों ही अलग। वहाँ हम अपनी पढाई करने चले तो गए, अब समस्या ये सामने आने लगी कि मैं जब भी अपने गाँव आऊं तब लोगो को यही सवाल खाये जाता कि कही मैंने धर्म तो नही बदल लिया। मुझे हमेशा यही शक रहता कि कोई ये सवाल न कर ले। क्योंकि मैं महज बारह साल का ही तो था। और इतना तो ज्ञान नही था लेकिन जैसे ही मैंने उस समुदाय में प्रवेश किया। तब मुझे सब समझ आने लगा। लगभग मुझे ज्ञान तो हो ही गया था कि संस्कृति हमारी संस्कृति बहुत अंतर है। यहाँ तक की जमीं और आसमा का। क्योंकि जब हमारे यहाँ मुसीबत आयी थी तो हमारी माँ ने काफी पैसा कर्ज ले लिया था। और तो और माँ उसे मदद समझती थी। क्योंकि माँ ने हमेशा यही सिखाया की मुसीबत में जो मदद करे चाहे वो कैसी भी हो। वो एहसान ही कहलायेगा। जब पढाई शुरू हुयी तो कभी मेरा पैसा लगा। यहाँ तक की मेने कॉलेज डिग्री ले ली। लेकिन मुझे कभी परेशां नही होना पड़ा।
अब हमारे गाँव के लोग हमारे रिश्तेदार हमेशा एक ही सवाल पूछे कही उन्होंने धर्म तो बदलने के लिये तो नही बोला अगर बोला हो तो बताओ हम उन्हें बताते है। तब एक सज्जन वाकई में मुझे आहत कर दिया जिसके कारण मुझे उन्हें जवाब यही देना पड़ा कि मुझे और आगे पढ़ना है और उसमे मुझे लगभग पचास हजार का है क्या आप पच्चीस हज़ार रुपए दोगे। वो बोखला गए उन सज्जन का चेहरा ऐसा लटका जैसे मैंने उनसे उनकी जिंदगी भर की कमाई मांग ली हो। वो चुपचाप वहां से चले गए लेकिन मेने उन्हें जाते समय एक बात जरूर बोली कि जब आप मर रहे हो और आप को में बोलू कि आप उस मंदिर उस मस्जिद में चले जाओ तो ठीक हो जाओगे तब तुम चले जाओगे और तब तुम्हे अपनी जान बचाने के लिये कुछ भी कर लोगे और कुछ भी खा लोगे। इसी तरह रिश्तेदार आज भी सवाल करते है तो मेने उनसे मिलना ही बंद कर दिया क्योंकि वो जिंदगी में आगे नही बढ़ना चाहते है तो उनसे बहस क्यों करे क्योंकि उनकी औकात हमें पता थी। तो आज हम अपनी जरुरत के समय हम अपने आप को किसी को भी सौंप देते है। लेकिन जैसे जैसे हम बड़े और समझदार होते जाते है तब हमें उन सब बातों में फर्क नजर आने लगता है। और हम भूल जाते है की हम क्या थे और जिन्होंने मदद की उन्होंने हमें क्या बनाया।
अब में आप को बता दू कि लोग जो बहुत आगे बढ़ते है उन्हें न तो जात - पात और न ही धर्म से मतलब रहता है वो केवल इंसान को इंसान समझते है। और अपना जीवन यापन करते है। लेकिन कुछ रूढ़िवादी लोंगो की वजह से न तो कोई अपनी मर्जी से रह सकता है न ही अपनी मर्जी से शादी न ही अपने मनपसंद दोस्तों को घर ला सकता न ही जा सकता। शायद इसलिये कभी हम आगे न बढ़ पाए हो। जब कोई बड़ा आदमी जिसके पास बहुत पैसे हो देश की फेमस हस्ती हो अगर वो किसी भी जात या धर्म से शादी करता है तो हम उन्हें बोलते है हां बहुत अच्छा काम किया। समाज में अच्छा सन्देश भेजा। धर्मनिरपेक्षता का सन्देश और जो उनका कुछ नही बिगाड़ सकते वो उनको पीठ पीछे ही गाली देते है। क्योंकि उनकी इतनी औकात नही रहती कि उनके ऊपर ऊँगली उठा सके। तब बड़े बड़े सामाजिक बाते करने वाले भी अपनी दुम दबा के बैठ जाते है। क्योंकि उन्हें उनकी औकात पता है कि देश में स्वतंत्रता का अधिकार है और वो कुछ नही बोल सकते है। क्योंकि वो अपना अच्छा भला जानते है।
मेरे दोस्तों मैं आप से ये तो नहीं कहता की आप अपने पूज्य लोंगो छोडो लेकिन उन्हें भी मत छोड़े जो जिन्हें आप चाहते है या वो आपको चाहते हों।
आज के युवा ऐसे है कि प्यार तो बड़ी आसानी से कर लेते है लेकिन उसे निभा नहीं पाते। क्योंकि जब उनपर लड़की या लड़के की जिम्मेदारियां पड़ती तो वो तय नही कर पाते कि किसे चुने घरवालो को या अपने प्यार करने वाले को। मेरा मानना ये है कि आप दोनों को ही चुने क्योंकि दोनों ही आपके लिये मायने रखते है। माँ-बाप और तुम्हारा प्यार क्योंकि एक के प्यार ने तुम्हे पाल पोस के बड़ा किया तो एक के प्यार ने तुम्हे जरुरत में हमदर्द बना रहा। जो बाते आप आपने घरवालो से नही कर सकते वो तुमने उसे बताया जब तुम अपना दुःख दर्द समझते हो की सामने वाला किस बात को लेकर नाराज हो जायेगा और किसको लेकर खुश तो क्यों उसे अपने से दूर रखो बस थोडी सी हिम्मत और सब एक जायेंगे।
by prateek vishwakarma
08/01/2017
English---
A girl likes a boy very much. But she is not yet seen that she guesses her beauty by listening to his voice. And then tried to contact what was that tries. He also gets a phone number. What then was he daringly calls the boy. First missed call then message. ... written that there was a call from sorry mist. The cow replies to the message in bugfix. It's ok But this did not end, he kept the matter moving slowly and such messages started chatting and slowly the talk kept moving forward. The expression of love in both of them happened in such a way that a film is going on,,,, both of them started understanding each other like they have known each other for a long time. In truth that would be quite a romantic second. There was not much time for their talk, but from their talks it seems as if they know each other very well. There should be a lot of fighting throughout the day and if one gets angry then the other should immediately refuse it ,,, their way of love was different, many times they end all of such fights but from noon to evening only one is back Have called And the other pardoned. The girl was very intelligent and the boy too but she was worried about the family because she was public. If their family finds out anything, it would be all they had not anticipated. The girl tells him we get married. But the boy does not want to go unlike him and his family. He is public that the marriage can still be done at the same time, but sometimes his family will be happy. will not be. So both of them decided that we will tell everyone in the house. But his luck was so good. Even before he said, the girl's family was getting to know everything. Both of them got nervous because both of their family members would never say yes to this marriage and it happened as we know.] The boy also told about the same thing at home but the answer was found in the same way as the girl's house. From The last people separated them and their house said, ,,,,,,,,,,,,, now they understand why it was done ??????????
Was the boy bad or did the girl have some qualities. Actually both were very good. From a good home to a normal house that has everything that an ordinary man needs. The real reason was that both were of different religion. ,,,,, and they were not able to adjust with each other. This problem was not with the boys and girls, it was with their family members. Both would have been happy but not their family. Now what should they do in that, is it the fault of those two innocent or is it a mistake to see their happiness more than the happiness of their children ????? The society would never have helped them till today without borrowing. But for the same society today, both families are playing emotionally with two people. For this reason, people are never able to move forward. And now, if both give their lives to someone else, will they be happy with whom they will live.
Forgive me because I have never done anything that makes you happy. But today I want to talk about that fact. Which you can find both good or bad. That's why I apologize to you in advance.
You all know that Amitabh Bachchan, Abhishek Bachchan Rani Mukherjee, here are such big stars that you consider your life icon or ideal. Know why you consider them ideal, because their art affects you people, or their money to those people. I agree that these people are truly commendable. But if we think like a common person, then perhaps they too have the same thing as a common person. Now this has happened to his lot.
Now we make a difference between their thinking and the thinking of common men like us. Because of which those people are really ready to be called great.
You will feel a little bad knowing this but I do not care. Neither you, nor your poor thinking, because my idea is something that will hurt people, their faith, devotion and many such major religious or social facts.But I would not like to care for them all. Because when a person does not have food or food to feed, then he does not know any difference of caste or religion, then he should be given food or water by a person of any religion or society, then he accepts it. And if the same situation happens to the contrary, he has everything and he is prosperous, then he is afraid that he should not be rich or equal to him or a poor or beggar.Talking about real life, I am not a famous man, but a country a home and a person who interests the country or socially connected with them and all the absurd things that hurt us or our minds. I am his thinker I can also mean in this. But I do not mean to hurt anyone's faith but it can also mean that one who cheats who never really wants to move forward or does not want to let anyone grow.
I did not have enough money to be able to study further, or to do anything because I was neither fast in studying nor had any special interest. So my mother sent me to a place where the atmosphere was different, both different society or religion. When we went there to do our studies, the problem started to appear that whenever I come to my village, people would be asked the same question that I have not changed religion at all. I always suspected that no one should ask this question. Because I was only twelve years old. And there was not much knowledge but as soon as I entered that community. Then I started to understand everything. I had almost realized that culture is very different from our culture. Even of land and Assam. Because when we had trouble, our mother had taken a lot of money. At other times, her mother considered her help. Because mother always taught that whoever helps in trouble, whatever it may be. He will be called a favor. When the study started, I never felt my money. I even got a college degree. But I never had to worry.
Now the people of our village, our relatives always ask the same question, if they have not said to change religion, if they have spoken then tell them. Then a gentleman really hurt me, due to which I had to answer to him that I have to study further and in that I have about fifty thousand rupees, will you give twenty five thousand rupees. The face of that gentleman who had gone down, hung as if I had asked him for his lifetime earnings. He quietly left from there, but I told him one thing while leaving that when you are dying and tell me that if you go to that temple in that mosque, then you will be fine then you will go and then you have to save your life. You will do anything and eat anything. Similarly, relatives ask questions even today, so I stopped meeting them because they do not want to move forward in life, so why argue with them because we knew their status. So today we hand over ourselves to anyone at the time of our need. But as we get older and smarter, then we see a difference in all those things. And we forget what we were and what made us who helped us.
Now let me tell you that people who move a lot, neither caste nor religion means that they only consider humans as human beings. And live their lives. But due to some orthodox people, neither one can live on his own will nor can he marry his own will nor can he bring his favorite friends home. Perhaps this is why we have never been able to move forward. When a big man who has a lot of money is a famous figure of the country, if he marries from any caste or religion, then we say to him, yes a very good job. Sent a good message to the society. The message of secularism and those who cannot do anything to them, abuses them behind their back. Because they are not able to raise their fingers so much. Then even those who talk big social things sit under their tails. Because they know their position that they have the right to freedom in the country and they cannot speak anything. Because they know their well.
My friends, I do not ask you to leave your venerated people, but do not leave even those who you want or want.
The youth of today are such that they can love very easily but they are unable to fulfill it. Because when they have to bear the responsibilities of girl or boy, they are unable to decide which one to choose or the one who loves them. I believe that choose both of them because both of them matter to you. Parents and your love because the love of one made you grow up in a pose, then the love of one kept you in need. Whatever you have said, you can not do with family; you told him when you understand your pain and pain that what is in front of you will be angry and what you are happy about, why keep it away from you, just a little courage and all One will go
by prateek vishwakarma
08/01/2017
Was the boy bad or did the girl have some qualities. Actually both were very good. From a good home to a normal house that has everything that an ordinary man needs. The real reason was that both were of different religion. ,,,,, and they were not able to adjust with each other. This problem was not with the boys and girls, it was with their family members. Both would have been happy but not their family. Now what should they do in that, is it the fault of those two innocent or is it a mistake to see their happiness more than the happiness of their children ????? The society would never have helped them till today without borrowing. But for the same society today, both families are playing emotionally with two people. For this reason, people are never able to move forward. And now, if both give their lives to someone else, will they be happy with whom they will live.
Forgive me because I have never done anything that makes you happy. But today I want to talk about that fact. Which you can find both good or bad. That's why I apologize to you in advance.
You all know that Amitabh Bachchan, Abhishek Bachchan Rani Mukherjee, here are such big stars that you consider your life icon or ideal. Know why you consider them ideal, because their art affects you people, or their money to those people. I agree that these people are truly commendable. But if we think like a common person, then perhaps they too have the same thing as a common person. Now this has happened to his lot.
Now we make a difference between their thinking and the thinking of common men like us. Because of which those people are really ready to be called great.
You will feel a little bad knowing this but I do not care. Neither you, nor your poor thinking, because my idea is something that will hurt people, their faith, devotion and many such major religious or social facts.But I would not like to care for them all. Because when a person does not have food or food to feed, then he does not know any difference of caste or religion, then he should be given food or water by a person of any religion or society, then he accepts it. And if the same situation happens to the contrary, he has everything and he is prosperous, then he is afraid that he should not be rich or equal to him or a poor or beggar.Talking about real life, I am not a famous man, but a country a home and a person who interests the country or socially connected with them and all the absurd things that hurt us or our minds. I am his thinker I can also mean in this. But I do not mean to hurt anyone's faith but it can also mean that one who cheats who never really wants to move forward or does not want to let anyone grow.
I did not have enough money to be able to study further, or to do anything because I was neither fast in studying nor had any special interest. So my mother sent me to a place where the atmosphere was different, both different society or religion. When we went there to do our studies, the problem started to appear that whenever I come to my village, people would be asked the same question that I have not changed religion at all. I always suspected that no one should ask this question. Because I was only twelve years old. And there was not much knowledge but as soon as I entered that community. Then I started to understand everything. I had almost realized that culture is very different from our culture. Even of land and Assam. Because when we had trouble, our mother had taken a lot of money. At other times, her mother considered her help. Because mother always taught that whoever helps in trouble, whatever it may be. He will be called a favor. When the study started, I never felt my money. I even got a college degree. But I never had to worry.
Now the people of our village, our relatives always ask the same question, if they have not said to change religion, if they have spoken then tell them. Then a gentleman really hurt me, due to which I had to answer to him that I have to study further and in that I have about fifty thousand rupees, will you give twenty five thousand rupees. The face of that gentleman who had gone down, hung as if I had asked him for his lifetime earnings. He quietly left from there, but I told him one thing while leaving that when you are dying and tell me that if you go to that temple in that mosque, then you will be fine then you will go and then you have to save your life. You will do anything and eat anything. Similarly, relatives ask questions even today, so I stopped meeting them because they do not want to move forward in life, so why argue with them because we knew their status. So today we hand over ourselves to anyone at the time of our need. But as we get older and smarter, then we see a difference in all those things. And we forget what we were and what made us who helped us.
Now let me tell you that people who move a lot, neither caste nor religion means that they only consider humans as human beings. And live their lives. But due to some orthodox people, neither one can live on his own will nor can he marry his own will nor can he bring his favorite friends home. Perhaps this is why we have never been able to move forward. When a big man who has a lot of money is a famous figure of the country, if he marries from any caste or religion, then we say to him, yes a very good job. Sent a good message to the society. The message of secularism and those who cannot do anything to them, abuses them behind their back. Because they are not able to raise their fingers so much. Then even those who talk big social things sit under their tails. Because they know their position that they have the right to freedom in the country and they cannot speak anything. Because they know their well.
My friends, I do not ask you to leave your venerated people, but do not leave even those who you want or want.
The youth of today are such that they can love very easily but they are unable to fulfill it. Because when they have to bear the responsibilities of girl or boy, they are unable to decide which one to choose or the one who loves them. I believe that choose both of them because both of them matter to you. Parents and your love because the love of one made you grow up in a pose, then the love of one kept you in need. Whatever you have said, you can not do with family; you told him when you understand your pain and pain that what is in front of you will be angry and what you are happy about, why keep it away from you, just a little courage and all One will go
by prateek vishwakarma
08/01/2017
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